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Disclaimer: the following post is of a very shallow nature.
I am not being mean with the title of this post but it this is something that I have noticed more and more often. I am sitting at Nino’s in Rivonia and listening (eaves dropping) to a girl at the table next to me blabber on about all the love interests that she has on the table. Are these men blind? Dumb? Deaf or all of the above? This girl is irritating, presumptuous and self-centered.
Very often I go out and talk to girl that are merely acquaintances who do not shut up about all of their love interests and escapades. Are they for real? Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that I am the be all and end all of judging what is hot and what is not, I am sure that to many ladies I am ass ugly but hey, that’s everyone’s personal choice.
I am more interested in the concept of being brashly arrogant about what you have, don’t have and think you have. I am not saying that one should not be confident, but why is it that in my experience it is always the ugly people (not just girls) in general who are talking about all the incredible things they have to offer and are being offered?
Worst of all the ugly girl sitting next to me is sitting with a very good looking lady who has not been able to get a single word out of her mouth. Shame.
Am I missing something or should you not just keep some details to yourself?
So Nic, it’s only the uggos who do this, is it?
Or it is just more tolerable to listen to the words when they come out of a beautiful woman’s mouth?
No, I don’t think its just the “uggos” as you said. I think that there are probably more “beautiful” women who talk shit, but I just happened to be sitting be an “uggo”!! hahaha. I sound like such a shit don’t I?
Yes, yes you do!
I have a few responses to this post… but if you will allow me some pop psychology I will limit my comment on only one - I think that people who talk about their sexual escapades are just generally trying to let you know that they are available to have similar escapades with you.
It only offends you when you wouldn’t in a million years consider ’said’ escapade. When it comes from a beautiful person your brain immediately engages and far from being annoyed, you imagine yourself in the picture - which can be a very rewarding way to spend a few minutes/ hours. I guess it comes down to the fact that flirting is an art not a science.
hmmm, very interesting take. I like it and kind of agree!!
It’s because for the pretty girl it’s like watching TV where you can be completely passive. Blah blah blah blah blah and the ugly girl gets a kick out of it because she can just stare at the pretty girl and get cool points by association.
In my mind.